How to remember someone’s name

Say the person’s name once when you meet. Then tie it to where you met and one detail from the conversation. That gives you something to bring up when you see them again.

Say the name back once

Nice to meet you, Mia fits naturally into an introduction. If you’re unsure you heard the name clearly, ask right then. Could you say your name one more time? If they correct you, say the name back and thank them.

Keep the name with one detail

After the conversation, make a short note with their name, where you met, and something they chose to share. For example, Mia from pottery class. She’s making a mug with a blue handle. A detail you’d be comfortable bringing up again is a good one to keep.

Ask again if you forget

Start with what you remember. Hey, we met at pottery class last week. Could you remind me of your name? If they remind you, thank them and carry on. You can ask how the mug turned out or just say it’s good to see them again.

Try it next time

Say one new name back. When you leave, jot down the name and the first detail you’d ask about next time.